Confused

And don't you just hate it when all your life you have lived in access to everything you NEEDED or wanted and all of a sudden you are expected to be a completely independent identity. How tough it is to decide, let alone pursue, your dream. How hard it is to struggle to that one goal you have decided for your life, and how worse it is if you are not even able to figure out that goal! What do you do when all your life you have been dependent on some or the other personalities holding a great place in your life? But not anymore, now is the time when you have to become that important personality to someone else's life letting them depend upon you, now is your time to take a step and leave its imprint as deep as possible so as to reach to the roots of success. I am sure most of the people face this situation with great courage and success but what happens to the confused ones? Should they just go with the flow and let life play its charms on them, or should they wait and keep on waiting until they see a sign? Maybe they should just keep knocking on every door they see and leave it to their luck,more of an uncertainity, if the door that would invite them in would be their first or their last. Once you get through this phase life is easy, but the very phase is frightening,full of anxiousness and pessimism. If u fail,they say bad things happen for a reason but can those wise words stop the bleeding? No,they can't.